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‘You want to be normal and you can’t,’ San Antonio woman says

SAN ANTONIO – Hundreds of displaced youngsters in Texas have fallen by way of the cracks of the foster care system, however there are native organizations working to make sure that a few of these youngsters have a security web as they age out.

Robyn Parker, 26, related with one in every of these organizations after years of instability within the system.

The first time her household was on the heart of a kid protecting providers case she was three years outdated, however she wasn’t faraway from her household and put right into a foster dwelling till she was a teen.

“Within six months. I was moved four times,” mentioned Parker. “I was very angry as a teenager and sometimes I took it out on my foster parents. Sometimes I took it out on the foster girls that I was roomed with.”

Many different occasions, Parker felt she had to disguise her feelings and emotions out of worry of not figuring out the place she would go subsequent.

“I also had to contain myself because if I showed too much emotion or got too difficult, they could notice and send me away,” mentioned Parker. “That was something I didn’t want to do. I didn’t want to move anymore.”


Parker’s mother and father have been incarcerated whereas she was within the system and she wasn’t shut to another members of the family.

Like many different foster youngsters, day by day within the system felt like a battle for survival and to really feel normal.

“You want to be normal and you can’t be normal. And so then you look for ways to rebel and you look for ways to figure out how to process that,” mentioned Parker. “We’re experiencing a lot of emotions and a very small time at an age where we’re not emotionally mature.”

Parker met Elaine Hartle when she was 17 years outdated and related with the THRU Project, a non-profit that helps San Antonio and surrounding space foster youth as they age out of the system.

It turned out to be a life-changing expertise. Hartle requested Parker to mentor foster teenagers in the same state of affairs.


Parker completed highschool, graduated from school and began working for the THRU Project.

“I didn’t quite see myself reaching this point in my life,” mentioned Parker. “I thought it was going to end in a more negative note. I’m just grateful to have the opportunities that I have.”

Parker has since moved out of San Antonio for a brand new alternative out of state, of her personal free will and along with her total future forward of her.

You can hear extra from Robyn Parker and others in regards to the foster care system by watching KSAT Explains: The Broken Foster Care System. The episode is featured under.

KSAT Explains: Family Tapestry, CPS and the damaged foster care system in Texas

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