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British father, 30, SPLITS from Ukrainian refugee he had an affair with

A safety guard who began a relationship with a Ukrainian refugee after he and his long run accomplice gave her a spot to reside has dumped her following a livid bust-up, MailOnline can reveal at this time.

Tony Garnett, 30, claims he has thrown out Sofiia Karkadym, 22, after accusing her of not with the ability to deal with alcohol and utilizing a knife to wreck a wall at their rented house.

With her belongings now in black bin liners prepared for assortment, he additionally accused her of interfering with his relationship with his two daughters, saying that he would at all times put them ‘first’.

Tony fell for Sofiia simply days after she began residing with him and his accomplice of ten years Lorna Garnett, 28, who’s the mom of his two youngsters.

He and his now ex-girlfriend made headlines in May after he left Lorna and moved out of the household house with his new lover so they might begin a brand new life collectively.

In an unique interview with MailOnline, he revealed at this time: ‘I am 100 per cent through with her. We are finished as a couple.’

Tony claimed that issues got here to a head after they rowed on Saturday evening whereas celebrating his thirtieth birthday at their house in Bradford, West Yorkshire He stated he ended up calling police after Sofiia apparently broken a wall, resulting in officers attending the handle.

Tony dumped Sofiaa after accusing her of not with the ability to deal with alcohol and utilizing a knife to wreck a wall at their rented house in Bradford (pictured)

Tony Garnett at his Bradford home today with his ex-girlfriend's luggage  and belongings in bin liners waiting to be collected

Tony Garnett at his Bradford house at this time with his ex-girlfriend’s baggage  and belongings in bin liners ready to be collected

Tony Garnett, 29, who left his partner of ten years for Ukrainian refugee Sofiia Karkadym, 22, after 10 days of her living with them. They have split, MailOnline can reveal

Tony Garnett, 29, who left his accomplice of ten years for Ukrainian refugee Sofiia Karkadym, 22, after 10 days of her residing with them. They have break up, MailOnline can reveal

Tony has stated: ‘I have made a mistake going into a relationship with Sofiia'

 Tony has said: ‘I have made a mistake going into a relationship with Sofiia’

The security guard left the mother of his two children, 28-year-old Lorna Garnett (pictured), for the refugee

The security guard left the mother of his two children, 28-year-old Lorna Garnett (pictured), for the refugee

Tony told MailOnline how he had become ‘fed up’ with what he described as her irrational behaviour in the course of the four-and-a-half months they had been collectively.

He stated: ‘I can’t take her abuse or anger any longer.

‘I left Lorna and my two children for her, and I made every extra effort I could to help her keep us together.

‘I worked so hard to make this relationship work. I knew that we would look like tw*ts if we broke up because we have a media profile and all the attention that has been put on us on television and on the internet.

Sofiia Karkadym (pictured) arrived in the UK at the start of May after fleeing the war in Ukraine

Sofiia Karkadym (pictured) arrived in the UK at the start of May after fleeing the war in Ukraine 

‘I also genuinely felt sorry for her. She left her home and her country which was at war and knew nobody here.

‘Yes, I felt and I thought I was in love with her. But there is a side to her which I just cannot put up with any longer. She gets angry and aggressive.

He claimed that: ‘On Saturday night she picked up a knife and stabbed the wall several times.

‘It really scared me and I had no choice but to call the police. That doesn’t make me completely satisfied in any respect. But I used to be nervous about my security. ‘

The row happened when two other Ukrainian refugees – Sofiia Rastorhuieva and her boyfriend Illia Tronevych – were staying with the couple.

They had moved in with Tony and Sofiia after he saw a desperate appeal from them on Facebook, asking for accommodation.

Heavily tattooed Tony added: ‘I have made a mistake going into a relationship with Sofiia.

‘As I have said before, my relationship with Lorna was already over and I was really unhappy.

‘But this wasn’t the appropriate factor for me. I’ve tried to assist her. I actually have.

‘I haven’t deserted her and have even been messaging her mom to get her to assist with assistance from Google Translate.

She could also be struggling from PTSD. But she is from Kyiv the place there hasn’t been a lot of the conflict.

‘I hope that she finds somewhere safe to live and is in a happier place. But she’s not for me.’

Tony, who acquired a barrage of on-line abuse over his relationship with Sofiia, stated he could be in search of a brand new house quickly and would additionally half with the opposite Ukrainian refugees.

He stated that Sofiia had despatched him a string of messages because the bust-up, saying that she beloved him and begging for a reconciliation.

But he stated he had advised her that he didn’t need again her again, saying he had already given her ‘chance after chance after chance’.

Tony stated he had accused her of ‘ruining’ his thirtieth birthday.

He claimed he advised her that he could be contacting the native council and the Home Office to try to get her re-housed.

Tony and Lorna first took in Sofiia after making use of to be a part of the Government’s refugee scheme as a result of they needed to assist individuals fleeing from war-torn Ukraine

Just 10 days after moving in with the Garnett family, Sofiia (pictured) and lover Tony moved out

The IT manager (pictured) is now renting a property in Bradford with Tony after he left his partner and kids

IT supervisor Sofiia (pictured) was renting a property in Bradford with Tony after he left his accomplice and youngsters 4 months in the past

The couple were making plans to visit Sofiia's family back in Ukraine so that Tony can formally ask her father for his daughter's hand in marriage. Tony has said their relationship is over

The couple had been planning to go to Sofiia’s household again in Ukraine in order that Tony can formally ask her father for his daughter’s hand in marriage. Tony has stated their relationship is over

But Tony grew impatient at how lengthy the method was taking and joined Facebook teams the place Ukrainians had been in search of sponsors.

He made contact with Sofiia via one of many teams and she or he arrived within the UK on May 4 and she or he went to reside in Bradford with him and Lorna and their daughters, aged three and 6.

Tony advised how they ‘just clicked’ and acquired on rather well immediately, partly as a result of he may communicate Slovakian which is analogous to Ukrainian.

The two them began chatting in a language Lorna didn’t perceive, staying as much as watch TV after she had gone to mattress and repeatedly went to health club with one another.

They each stated that though they had been ‘getting on brilliantly’ at the moment, ‘it was no more than that’ and ‘innocent’.

But they ended up ‘finding excuses to touch and brush against each other’ and issues acquired tense in the home.

Tony stated he would return house to meals cooked by Sofiia who would inform him how ‘lucky Lorna was to have him’.

Lorna was offended concerning the scenario that she ultimately requested Sofiia to depart the household’s house simply ten days after she arrived

But she was shocked when Tony advised her: ‘If she’s going, I’m going’.

The new couple ended up moved in with Tony’s mother and father earlier than discovering their very own place and starting the method of making use of for a everlasting visa for Sofiia.

Tony stated on the time: ‘I am so sorry for what Lorna is going through, this was not her fault and it was not about anything she did wrong.’

Sofiia added: ‘As soon as I saw him I fancied him. It’s been very fast however that is our love story. I do know individuals will suppose badly of me however it occurs. I may see how sad Tony was.’

The couple later talked of their hopes of getting married and having youngsters of their very own, as soon as Tony had his vasectomy reversed.

He advised MailOnline: ‘I want to propose to this beautiful lady,’

Sofiia said: ‘We are planning our life together. I want to be a mother. I want to have children.

‘I am a young woman so it can wait a few years and I hope that Tony can have his vasectomy reversed so that we can become a family together.’

As their ill-fated relationship made headlines, Tony revealed that he had suffered a torrent of abuse on social media over his resolution to depart his household house.

He even spoke of his hopes of launching a pop career after recording a rap about their experiences.

Tony additionally insisted that his relationship with Lorna was already on the rocks earlier than he met Sofiia.

One of Lorna’s associates advised again in May how the now single mum was ‘devastated’.

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